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I recently attended my first SnB party. I’ll describe the famous blindfold and my wonderful mentor, 多多, but first I’d like to write my own quick reflection of SnB thus far. There are two things I really love about SnB: the sense of community and the openness (and the sex, okay, maybe 3 things).
Everyone I’ve interacted with thus far has been exceptionally conscientious. You can tell there’s a strong friendship and trust amongst the members. In most “clubs”, the senior members are often cliquish or feel a sense of entitlement, but I saw none of that; everyone in the party was eager to help me feel welcome as a newcomer, which I deeply appreciate.
My observation was once you’re accepted as a participant, follow the rules, and demonstrate basic empathy, the other members are quick to adopt you into the SnB community.
On the openness, there’s an implicit rule in 'society' that you shouldn’t touch someone affectionally unless you’re essentially dating. I’m a kinesthetic learner (動覺型學習者) and I communicate a lot through touch. I definitely feel more comfortable touching than talking.
In SnB, people seem to be very comfortable with affectionate touching, and this makes a huge difference for me personally. Everyone is also totally comfortable with nudity (it’s complementary to the whole have-sex-anywhere theme), which I love. It’s another personal thing, but as soon as I get home, I take off all my clothes… except my socks… sometimes I keep my socks on in case my feet get cold. In fact, I’m writing this naked right now at my home desk. I always found it weird that we’re taught from a young age that nudity isn’t appropriate in public, but I just prefer being naked. I haven’t found such openness and comfort as newcomer anywhere else.
Okay, so I’ve made those two points. As a very recent graduate of the Forum Interns Class of 2021 , I feel an obligation to write a review of my experience applying to SnB. And then we’ll get to the party.
It took me around 6 months from signing up on the SnB website to being admitted as a Junior Participant. Out of these 6 months, I believe 1 month was very important. The first 4-5 months I browsed around the site just getting as familiar as I could with the rules and reading people’s first-time activities. I posted a couple times but wasn’t sure what to say or how to add any value. In particular, I want to thank Edmund for so proactively talking to new joiners, you consistently replied to my forum messages at the beginning (when my username was borrowedtime) , I think if no one had talked to me it would have been pretty discouraging.
After I felt I knew the rules, I sent in my application, I had around 35 coins. Chris responded the next day (so fast, I was really surprised) saying they need to know me better before they could consider my application. Of course, he was right, I just didn’t know how to add any value, I also don’t know Cantonese (I’m learning - try to talk to me in Canto if you meet me at the party!) and cannot read characters. In thinking about this problem, I realized instead of (only) trying to add my opinion to whichever topics show up in the chatroom, I should do something interesting and then write about the experience on the forum.
I was reading about Tantra, when Mustard convinced (inspired?) me that no amount of reading would substitute for an experience. So, I found a Tantra professional in Hong Kong and scheduled a massage. Then I scheduled a private lesson in my apartment with her teaching assistant. Of course, I wrote about these experiences on the forum, where Bush (阿草) took an interest and I believe this really helped getting to know the other members and sharing myself. I also love to read and exchanged book references with Jaime, taking pictures of the first couple pages.
In short, I tried to bring my own material from outside into the forum, whereas I think the tendency is to almost “recycle” existing forum content. I also tried to help actively on the Newcomers Introduction forum, especially the English posts, that’s just an easy job with a genuine need. About 1 month after my first application, James reached out suggesting I resubmit my application material. Obviously, I’m not the expert here, maybe I was accepted for completely unrelated reasons, but having just completed that process, those were my thoughts. As a Forum Intern, I was eager to get all the advice I could, so hopefully this will help someone in the future.
Okay, onto the party! James gave me the location and the time. I arrived at my MTR exit with just enough time to walk to the location. As I started walking, the little blue dot on my phone started moving away from my destination. So, I went the other way… also wrong direction!? And now I was late… to my first SnB party . Eventually I had to ask someone how to get to the main road. This very friendly gentleman pointed me in the direction I had just come from… Okay, let’s try that again. 5 minutes later the guy chased me down the street to tell me I had missed my turn and he personally walked me to the main road. Can I give this man a medal? It turns out I wasn’t at the exit I thought I was at and had to go back to the MTR to get to the right exit. Finally, I get to the location 20 minutes late. I wasn’t nervous. Now I’m nervous. I called James, who was kind enough not to comment on my late arrival, took a covid test, put on the blindfold, and walked inside. People immediately introduced themselves and I was introduced to my mentor 多多.
多多 started chit-chatting with me which made me feel comfortable and gave me a shower. James asked if I wanted to continue wearing my blindfold while I play with my mentor; he said “It’s better you wear it the whole time”. Of course, he said that because it’s a one-time experience and part of the ritual, but my brain thought, jeez… is her face so ugly? Because I’m an idiot .
多多 and I went to another room, and she said “okay, no one else is here now.” First, I wanted to feel how big the bed was because I still couldn’t see. Meanwhile 多多 had to watch me crawl around on my hands and knees trying to find the edges of the bed with my pants off and my shirt still on. Then we started touching each other, I could feel her body and her hair. Once we started touching, I felt immediately comfortable. 多多’s skin is super soft, even after we had sex, while she was explaining the rules to me, I couldn’t stop rubbing against her skin. She is really so soft. She also has a nice natural smell. The most important thing to me about a woman’s body is her health, I think the health of someone translates into how their skin feels. In my observation, someone who frequently drinks alcohol or smokes doesn’t have the same skin texture or smell as someone who’s healthier and 多多 feels very healthy.
Okay, so we’re touching, and softly kissing. I really love kissing, but I don’t like to kiss “hard” on the mouth (it’s just my preference). It feels really nice kissing with 多多, like we’re talking without speaking. I lay her on her stomach and start kissing from her neck slowly down her lower back. She seems to really enjoy it... Except I’m still blindfolded, and I have no idea where the condoms are… So, I roll over. She gets on top and starts kissing down from my neck to my cock and… holy s**t... Best oral I’ve received in my life. Seriously. I usually don’t love blowjobs because I’d rather just have sex, but this was shockingly good. I was thinking 多多 and I could make a YouTube series on how to give a blowjob. She could be the instructor and I could be the “instructor’s assistant” .
After the oral, 多多 put a condom on me and started riding on top. We were both pretty quiet up until this point and then not so quiet. We switched positions to her lying face down, this is my favorite position. I penetrated her from behind and kissed her neck and she got louder. I slowed the rhythm and increased the penetration depth. I could feel her vagina contracting around my cock sporadically and grabbed her ass. Then we switched to missionary, and I put her hand on her clit. Then almost exactly as she started to orgasm, I lost my boner . Kill me. 多多 I’m so sorry!!! I’m going straight to hell for this. I promise to do better if you’re ever willing to give me another chance.
After we had sex, we finally made eye contact. I seriously expected her face to be kind of ugly (because I’m an idiot). 多多 is so beautiful, not only is she beautiful, she’s kind of my “type”. I was so surprised. I wanted to stay in the room and continue playing with her, but she said we had already been in the room an hour (an hour!? I thought it was at most 20 minutes) and because it was my first time, I should meet other people and let others use the room. We left the room and talked a bit in the living room, I could happily spend the whole time with 多多, I really enjoyed talking to her and the affectionate touching.
Next, I offered to give Nina a massage. I was a little intimidated because Nina has an unspoken “fame” amongst the new joiners. She’s active in the chat and her name is everywhere on the forums. Thankfully, she said she would like a massage, but she couldn’t have sex that night. She picked the body oil and we went into a private room, where I told her it’s a Tantric sex massage… she was surprised! Seems I forgot to mention the “Tantric sex” part in the living room . We agreed I would massage everywhere except her vagina area. As she took off her clothes, she magically produced a bondage cloth. Wow… Nina is a pro . Turns out it was just the belt to her Kimono… I have a hard-working imagination.
Nina is beautiful and obviously fit. She’s also um… “blessed”. I am also new to this massage; I have only given it a handful of times. I was not prepared for such an opponent. I fought hard against Nina’s blessings. Massaging up and down, sideways… I did not surrender, but in the end, I was defeated. Until next time.
One thing I really liked about giving Nina a massage is that she’s super sensitive to light, slow touch. Her whole body convulses to 1 finger tracing slowly up her spine. I loved slowing down the touch and playing with her sensitivity.
The massage has a tendency to make people horny, and Nina couldn’t have sex that night. I’m not sure whether she felt better or worse after the massage. Sorry about that . Thank you for being a willing recipient anyway.
After the massage, I was relaxing in the living room when James rushed over and asked if I was okay. I said I was; he replied “okay, change partner!” and I was ushered into a room where Athena was moaning loudly while SunnyB was fingering her. I believe SunnyB had just finished and needed some fresh meat or had to leave the party. Athena was in another universe with her head back, moaning loudly. I put on a condom and went to work; and it was hard work! I don’t know if it’s just because I’m new to SnB and lots of women are similar to Athena or if she is unique in this way, but I found her libido and endurance very impressive. I really enjoyed my experience with her , I clearly have some training to do. We chatted for a little while afterwards, which I really liked. With all the physical activities I haven’t spent much time just chatting to the participants, I’m looking forward to getting to know people better.
So that’s my first-time experience! If you got this far, thanks for reading the whole thing.
Thank you Chris and James for creating this remarkable community. I would have thought it’s near impossible to create this kind of atmosphere at scale. It’s really inspiring to witness, and I know I have a lot to learn from here. I especially want to thank James who reviewed my application and generously guided me the whole time. After the acceptance phone call, I still had some uncertainty around the health check, payments, and party registration and I’m very grateful for his help. I also asked for an accessory which he accommodated and I’m super happy about that. Thank you!
Add post (23-7-2021 12:20):
Oh! Also, thank you Daryl and Shadow for introducing yourselves and it was nice to meet you although we didn't really get to talk... I hope next time we get to know each other better
Add post (23-7-2021 12:29):
Also, 多多, I am sorry that I cannot say your name correctly, but I promise I will learn to say it at least better if not correct |