話說，之前係 briefing 時已提過，亦有會員係無開名的動後提過筆者要開名。有次有個筆者回應話＂突然想試下唔寫名＂。當時我真係好想回一句問佢，咁你依家試左啦，有咩感覺呀？當然最後我無咁回，因為個位筆者當時係個新人，唔想好似 old seafood 虾人咁。但呢位如今已經唔係新人 ge 參加者，都仲係出緊無名動後囉。究竟出唔開名啲動後 ge 人講下唔開名動後係咪真係寫起上嚟會開心啲，會 high D架？
而一直都有話，如果寫得太露骨，怕有關參加者尷尬先唔好開名。咁有一次有個資深會員，出左篇無名動後，話因為＂內容可能比較到骨，所以我決定唔開名～知道名既盡量唔好劇透＂。但睇完，我好 mean 咁心諗＂吓，咁都叫到骨？＂
我之前已明寸過某個熟人話佢出埋啲無名動後（因為熟，我信佢唔會嬲我咁直接咁寸Ｘ佢），而又加過某人 ＨＰ ，個原因係佢個動後有名。可能呢啲方法太間接無人 aware 啦。希望今次由 Chris 出聲，大家唔係一句＂收到＂就算，而係認真看待動後感，無論係對係動後被提及的對手，或者係＂其他不論有無在場的參加者＂。
Personally I am very disappointed and upset to have seen so many anonymous write-ups even after so many soft n kind reminder fr different ppl n I feel exactly the same as what Jackie said. It’s like being excluded and not being part of it and sometimes even if I have attended the same party.
Though I don't think it's a gd sign that ppl only respect Chris but not the gentle reminders of other participants, it's at least better than nothing n keeping such an undesirable practice/ habit only for the writer's or a limited n selected ppl's personal interest.
As a few of you have said in different sections that the forum seemed to be relatively quiet recently. I believe posting such anonymous write-ups is one of the reason behind.
Thank you Chris for reminding us the importance of an activity report with names included.
I've always found reports without names hard to read, EVEN when I was actually at the event!
So for those that weren't there that night, I really don't know how they will know...
Some have said that they have to read other peoples' reports to piece together the puzzle... Why do we need to do so much 'detective' work just to find out something so simple.
To have Chris bring this up means that the situation has gotten to a certain point that he feels he needs to make his point heard. I hope we've all got the message and learnt.
At the end of the day, an activity report is both a memory for ourselves to remember but also a sign of respect for ladies/guys that one has played with. If there are no names, then I might as well write a report with 'Thank you' x2 (x3, x4 etc); I know who I'm thanking the lady I'd played with knows I'm thanking them.
I've always pledge to reports with names and that's why I always write reports with them in. Every now and again, I go back to these reports and read what happened and the feelings involved. I hope that those who have read them feel the same too.
Cheers to future reports with names included!
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